How can we, each of us, contribute to the cessation of any or all types, of sexual impositions?
Today and throughout our history, UK children and children in many other Countries, not just Western, are expected to grow into young, and not young adults, desiring sex.
Are they being forcibly programmed by those societies? Before, during and after their formal education?
Does the UK curriculum even address the concept of asexuality in its ‘sex education’ programs? Do any other Countries?
Why are asexual identities considered ‘abnormal’ in societies and as such, disbelieved? Does that disbelief enable only sexually desiring mind-sets, from a very young age?
Do you contribute to denying asexuality even exists in any other? Perhaps by introducing the idea that another might like you as, or, your choice of, a sex partner for them?
If so, do you give them reasonable time, one month uninterrupted, by any external sex desiring concepts, of sober thought, to consider those options?
Do those considered to be, or declaring themselves to be lonely, truly desire sex? Have they even honestly, without outside influences, questioned that?
Is asexuality considered as unreasonable by you? If so why? Why do you consider such a concept in another, as must not be, to suit your mind-set or will?
Has your reasoning ever included the concept that another might be asexual, but has hidden that fact to avoid ridicule or exclusion?
‘Emmerdale’ the UK soap, is the only main stream UK TV program to even introduce the concept of asexuality into it’s scripts. Do you consider that abnormal or acceptable? Why?
Asexuality is treated in Society like it is an incident that passed, or passes. Rather than a life long reality. As though, as has been done to many asexuals, asexuality can be, ‘persuaded’ out of a person, particularly females. Leading to more sexual impositions. Which present in their life as traumatic and cause anxieties for so many.
This is not to dwell too long on the actuality that is a serious violation, a very serious sexual imposition. But to consider that rape, as with the sexually desiring must stop for all.
To also consider that it happens just the same to the asexual, who’s no’s were never considered as true so, rape to the asexual is yet another inconsiderate, sexually imposing and invasive incident. Some more violent than others.
What other asexual ways can be introduced into fictional or non fictional presentations that normalise asexuality and the persons, any gender, with that heartfelt desire not to have sex, if not yet the strength to convey that mind set? That without forcing asexuality onto any persons such as sexuality has been? But introducing it as a norm for some, if not the majority. To be accepted as true.
How to do so without making those living with an asexual mind set, a target for those wanting a ‘challenge’ to do sex with?
Questions for discussions:
“What education programs together with, families, social media and MSM assistances can be brought about to encourage the freedoms that help all children to develop their inner personalities & strengths to set and convey any mind set they may have that is not sexually imposing? That, without using any sexually inspired influences or words.”
“Shall the formal and publicly widespread, introduction of asexuality as another ‘normal’ eventually help with the global cessation of sexual impositions?”
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