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I question, is the gradual mind set change of myself influencing, in any way, another?
Those with the notion that we can start from scratch are not inclusive of any others that are already; living, learning, observing, growing, educating, entertaining, evolving, understanding, working, resting, and playing. Too many, too often surviving; murder of their loved ones, mind manipulating, impositions, rejections, denials, ignorance, violations and more moral and unlawful ‘wrongs’ of harmfully-set minds. Minds I observed for years, of those wanting to start from scratch, are truly unrealistically, in delusion and more often that not, enjoying the proceeds of theirs and/or their loved ones’ and fellows’ harmful ‘wrong’ doing.
I read an article shared on Twitter, called, “You can’t always start from scratch.” In my mind it was the beginning of public confirmation of that impossibility. It was something so obvious to me that I hadn’t considered the possibility of it not being obvious to others. I understand differently now. Sometimes wording that seems obvious to ourselves and assumed obvious to many others, is a wrong assumption and is important to recognise that further education, enlightenment is a necessity. Clearly it is not obvious to those continuously manipulating the continuation of encouraging the impossible ideal that it is possible to start from scratch. So glad of the ably qualified person sharing this truth, called Naomi Klein, unknown to me in any way, prior to the shared tweet. She is still unknown to me personally. I have read her article. I hope she doesn’t mind me sharing the link. She sparked a train of thoughts in my already busy, some might say hyper-active, mind. There are no clues as to how we actively start making changes from the puzzles and challenges of starting with, ‘as is’ now, in her article. Not a bad thing in the big inclusive scheme of things. In my opinion and mind, the article leaves room for inclusion of any proposals of those discovering, observing and considering such true statements.
Naomi Klein – You Can’t Always Start From Scratch
To assume that starting from scratch is a possibility, is today to encourage harmful wrongs occurring via thoughtless, aggressive, expressions, weaponry and murder as much as, other crimes and wrong doings. That ideal is, after all, an impossible to prove ideal that is usually accompanied in effort to establish it, by anger, aggression, destruction, distress, force, trauma, ‘barbarism’ and ‘wrong’ assumption. Those things happened in history and today (2020) are already established and there are a stream of ready, willing and able, promotions of those wanting to make even more harmful attempts to establish more of the same mind sets.
Those mind sets are already repeatedly, oh so loudly and traumatically proven to cause harm to other living beings. Are very wrong on a great many levels, encouraging reactions that are also wrong, no argument accepted about that. Wrong doing is, after all, wrong.
Breaking of both religious and agreed-enacted secular laws made with good reason and intent, is also ‘wrong’.
Encouraging, inspiring proper adherence to all recognised and established laws, rules and regulations made with good reason and intent, is ‘not wrong’.
Wrongs
All harmful thoughts are, by definition ‘wrong’.
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Not Wrongs
Harm less by definition is ‘not wrong.’
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Once the realisation that doing wrongs, encouraging wrongs, inciting or inspiring wrongs, and decisions to definitively, state, publicise, promote, inspire, assist, secure that, not to do wrongs is the, ‘not wrong’ best, way to continue.
We can inclusively begin, start our own self being the urgent changes. Changes necessary for all inclusive ‘not wrongs’ to begin spreading widely and so eliminating the social diseases of ‘wrong’ doing and ‘wrong’ thinking’.
That isn’t starting from scratch it is part of a beginning, as of ‘now’ in ‘as is’ state.
A beginning of mind set changes. A beginning of united compassionate, cognitive behaviour.
Encouraging, inspiring and educating, focussing on our own ‘not wrong’, reflecting about all that is ‘not wrong’ may be a set of challenges that put many off doing so.
That putting off, is apparent, actually obvious, by seeing today’s leadership and media presentation mind set standards.
However it is possible to do. In gentle manner, upon reflection we do find our own harm less and gentle manners, they lead us into more harmless excitement, more widespread harmless activities and promotions. Decreasing harmful ‘wrongs’ being done radically. We must take that responsibility for the sake of all persons from new, all the way to and including the old.
So, those among us with or building the strength of will, the sense and desire to be less harmful, now begin being that example. Utilising any of our skills to encourage, inspire, educate and purposely promote properly all that is ‘not wrong’. All need to recognise why, for the sake of harm less being widely available, it needs to be louder than ‘wrong’. Those among us not actually in mind manipulated and misled, wrong state have reached the stage where they are at liberty to make noise harmlessly.
Those among us controlling our naturally angry desire to get revenge on those who harm us or others less able. Controlling our reactive moments that inspire; insult, mockery and worse, maiming and killing of others. We, yes we, can be encouraged, celebrated loudly for such resolve, not to harm, as we resist temptation to do so in the instant harm imposes itself via others on to us. I have resisted on numerous occasions during my life time, those escaping my passed over, my resisted, thoughtful of the harm I wanted to inflict but, yes, with my inner personal experiences and so knowledge of, consequences of harm done to me and, having seen the same or worse harms done to others. I actively and some will tell you, casually or with loud misguided and misleading other angry expression such as harsh words, resisted worse ideas of instant and reactive justice, like murder. In my head the violators deserved death, they had killed so many innocences in me, far too soon and, unnecessarily. Each bringer of harm to me, may or may not be aware of the consequences I suffer then and in many ways, still suffer now, they know who they are, if they don’t I do. Big whoop…not.
Moving swiftly on….
Seeing, discovering, exploring, practicing that strength, is a matter to cognitively dwell on. It’s better to compare own self this moment with own self in a previous moment, day, year. Better than comparing self to another without substantial cloning abilities.
Let’s purposefully begin or continue, by examples, to show and teach by remaining calmly strong in our resolve to harm less, rather than seek recognition for, a not always sustainable moment of calmly harming less and less, when in company of loud, unruly, deviants with harmful intent. That takes practice, not necessarily fame. A few promoted publicly, moments of our calm brilliance does not a life change make so, why does it, so often, become harmfully life changing by fame?
In refusing such fame and continuing to purposefully harm less without famed brilliant moments distracting our aims, taking us from our paths, we example and ourselves sample at the very least, a little more of the understanding calm that is truly possible, and eventually sustainable in any company, no matter the temptation to diversify into harmful habits, harmful petty distracting point scoring. It is present in each and every person. It is of course vital to acknowledge, to recognise, to help others with management of any justified reactive anger. Important not to smother that the consequences of wrong doing exist and cause widespread as much as in situ harm, in varying degrees. Not smothering that fact, proven time and time again, keeps as a reminder in evolution terms and personally that it is proper behaviour not to cause harm.
Accusations of a another or groups others who have or are causing harm in less severe manner, not requiring law intervention, serve only to distract from our own selfs’ contribution to causing less harm. Persuasion, encouragement to look into self for understanding is a preferred method of confrontation, there are creative methods, often shown by the calm and by the comedy writer and/or performer. Those comedic people also have fun ways that release shared exasperations.
The laws we have in place are too complex, confusing, unknown and/or unmonitored, policed and adhered to. The consequences of that fact are grim. They led to the situations we find ourselves in. There is an urgent need to simplify and ensure that knowledge and adherence to all laws made by cognitive reason and harm less intent, applies. That is challenging by its self. It takes deserved attention to self behaviour and knowledge of all the actual consequences accompanying, ‘wrong’ and ‘not wrong’ behaviours.
We, who made mental note and kept close to our forefront, of calm schooling, formal or experienced, as we blundered blindly, coping as and when, with traumas of our own and those shown to us, hope to ‘harm less’ and that, becomes foremost not only in our mind set but, a mind set widespread and loud among all living beings.
We tend to initially ignore, by more enjoyable distraction, smothering, oppressing our own instant instinctive, habitual thoughts and, any desires to react, in emotional and/or emotive anger, pain or frustration and with practice, become habitual to the point of, instinctively not reacting that way but, expressing instead the desire, for time to gather our own thoughts and better methods of expressing the most purposefully harmless expressions among the cache of harmless treasures residing somewhere in all. There’s apparently, see religious book in Bible called revelations. only one evil exception, to all our own hearts and minds. How loud and influential that ‘evil one’ became, is obviously apparent, even among the secular. Changing, by discovery, recognition of that influence, is of key importance. Knowledge of mind manipulation is also key in preventing the mind of self becoming further influenced. Then we can assist those we have birthed, if it’s not too late, to do the same. Celebrating every eviction of, sourced to the ‘evil one’ influence, in our self and the ‘self’ of others who are certainly not, that ‘evil one’. When we put into perspective, our ability to find that ‘evil one’ among the billions of persons alive, we discover that we initially cannot hope nor do most of us desire to, find that ‘evil one’ in truth, we prefer instead to utilise all discoveries of our self, particularly our ability to evict all influence of that one from our self, unless of course, we are that ‘evil one’. I discovered I am not that. Though it had been implied on many occasions by several influential persons, some in authority, some religious, some secular, all seeming to desire reason to cause me harmful, often traumatic, ‘wrong’. The discovery that they had no justification to treat me with ‘wrong’ because I am not the influential ‘evil one’ but instead, just like them, I was influenced by it. The relief, the joy, added strength and encouragement to my resolve to purposefully proceed with careful recognition, definite eviction of mind manipulated ‘wrong’ from my own self, my own immediate vicinity, improving by the moment, my own, daily cognitive behaviour and, way of life. I can only hope those who have imposed, directly or indirectly, harm to me by their wrongs will discover that they are not that currently influential, ‘evil one’ either. That they recognise, acknowledge that they are influenced by it.
As I have already worded, there are many established meditation methods and apps, they are of very little cost to the purse. They school us in ways to practice mind set changes for the purpose of, ‘not wrong’ to strengthen our will for such changes. Resulting in the purposeful betterment of our self. Yes it is important to hope that others do the same but, not as important as purposefully improving our own cognitive behaviour, that which harms less. Step by step then, when we have found our strengths in ‘not wrong’ behaviour, wording and purposeful resolve, we notice we can fly through, over and above or below, any if not all challenges, creatively.
There are plenty of helpful mind set changing workshops and courses for personal attendance and fewer for virtual inclusion, that needs expanding for a start. In order to accommodate the physically disabled, those limited in their activities by involuntary, uninvited by self handicaps, like myself or, in worse condition. There’s a harmless challenge supported by laws enacted. No argument is justified, not even of financial loss to do so, from any business wanting to attract custom or client. Within reason, we seek inclusion not luxury. If any such business need sacrifice luxury to accommodate inclusion of all perspective customers and clients then, that is ‘not wrong’. Defining luxury, it is a luxury and an advantage to be in a position to open a business, no argument about that, can be justified to me and fellow disabled persons of any physical or mental disability, creed, culture, practice or skin colour.
I found so many alternatives to attendance, though my preference would have been attendance, to be included by helpful workers and business proffering helpful services but then denying access. My own chosen method of accommodating my physical inability to attend any workshops, during this transition period of moving away from the ‘wrong’ harmful exclusion of inaccessibility to such services private or publicly offered, was and is, a lot of differing, very helpful apps, cd’s and books. Books are a struggle a big problematic challenge because I have a form of dyslexia accompanying Fibromyalgia, Arthritis, Costochondritis, nerve damage, PTSD and a new problem from 2018 still being ignored by records of medics, though they’ve been shown and informed of that challenging painful condition undiagnosed but easily and obviously seen.
Apps of a helpful nature are available, for sale or for free, to all, except I’m not sure how those without hearing senses, the deaf, are accommodated. Apps for those who desire to sample a little piece or a large daily slice of calm relaxation in own self comfort, which initially is momentary then, eventually, and with a few more of those moments, months of consistent practice, builds, by each moment, into actual days, months, years of permanent, better, less harmful mind sets, leading to more assertive, stronger purposeful, harm self and others less during communications, actions and activities. Self practice may not make the entire inclusive communities of living beings perfect, it does help creative communications with most and it does contribute to bettering and maybe one day, perfecting life on this planet our home, this, struggling painfully under the burdensome weight this Earth that we are currently, inclusively, born onto and living on. We can ease the burden when we choose our self harm less motivational practises. A few even have the ‘wrong’ audacity to claim that they have been selected to lead by majorities, when in fact they are only selected by a small margin majority of those voting, which sadly does not represent fairly or cognitively the true majority at all. Instead they currently represent those who desire, ‘start all from scratch’ but only in their exclusive way,by their exclusive methods, securing their positions with weapons and other harms. Putting burdens on those voting against and those not given a vote as much as, those noticing the vote options have no choices they can truly feel has any meaningful options, they can truly admit to their self, is enough to put their mark by, in order to favourably be represented by representatives claiming they will represent them. I note today, none, claiming publicly, to represent another, is claiming to represent them favourably. Is that a devious get out clause? In the UK this has caused divide, unrest, anger and exasperation’s. All of extreme difficulty for any to self manage but, many do, often by denying, ignoring harms done already and being done or being planned. None it would seem, in large enough number, has the knowledge of how to change the system. This in turn, causes much harm and no one self takes responsibility to change their authoritative position. Those positions have become too lucrative, not inspiring a cessation of any wrongs. Rather, encouraging continuation of them. This can and has been proven too, to on numerous occasions in history, and currently. It is obviously apparent to any cognitive person. Apparent by their words and more importantly their lack of harmless deeds. Any inspiration to do harmless deeds is not apparent from them. They seem to have self interest in their own mind set, rather than an interest in organising for the betterment of the actual majority, all of whom are truly having a lifetime. Instead those claiming the seats of responsible authoritative governing position, blithely continue claiming they represent majority but, they represent so few, they seem only to serve their own and their fellows’ interest, any view to the contrary can be justified by the majority of harmless actions resulting from their claims. Those few people among lawfully registered voters, loudly if not larger in number, claiming a majority for people, aren’t actually or acutely aware or truly sure of how or why they’re truly represented. At least they haven’t proven or justified their harmful noises themselves, publicly, quite the opposite from where I observe and witness or experience. They settle for the ignorance of maybe they will, maybe they won’t but, the other options don’t…so…immoral permission for harm to continue is given, without surety of definitive action to do self and others voting for them, no harm. The marginal or even overwhelming, majority of votes of those deciding in lethargic ignorance, to choose to make their mark and get this interference from self, flow of life. The marks from the options available to voters, in fact are a minority of the population, with ‘wrong’, with large, often ignorantly lethargic and very loud but few in number, while viewing the actual number, each of that larger number, adversely, more often than not, affected by the results of the vote.
I wasn’t put off my main quest of purpose, though my progress was slowed by several interruptions, not only my, formally diagnosed ill health symptoms or directives, orders to manage them myself though that isn’t possible. Also not of self interruptions, denials, impossible to accept directives and exclusions contributing to ‘wrongs’ all imposed themselves on my character, without my informed consent. I couldn’t deny my own desires to purposefully cause less harm to myself and to others. The oppressive, unhealthy directives were too numerous and quick to be imposed for me to cognitively comply. There were also, exclusions and ‘wrongs’ that I couldn’t, in respectful recognition of my own, friendly, cheerful souls’ consciousness, relate to or deal with cognitively. I was and still am in the process of, purposefully changing my mind set, my life and those I cognitively choose to spend an time with. Some I am forced to spend time with because my physical needs are being met by local council. I have to trust, the trust hat council,puts in those sent to meet my physical car needs. That is not always possible, or manageable. However, cognitive behaviour methods bring me more and more assertive management skills.
I am constantly aware that I am able to strengthen my will and make my new mind set and stronger purpose into a ‘not to ‘wrong’’ any of each individual I come into contact with, to keep my new mind setting within cheerful, friendly bounds of my soul and eventually it will be permanent permanent. Freeing me to create more. Perhaps even contribute to society by means of creative thinking accompanying cognitive thought. Also some of the apps I purchased are still of help during any personal emergent need. Apps accommodating that portion of my physical and mental health needs that require home visits, beautifully. I bought a few from different presenters. The ones of my personal preference are, of a the able and formally qualified Glenn Harrold. There are plenty of others, able and formally qualified, each may suit any individual taste. Finding helpful tips and methods in book stores and in app stores that assist us in the beginning of the recognition and then practice, of new habits. All accommodating my purposeful desire to better myself with more harmless to self and others, mind settings. Also the building of harmless strength of will and of purpose. To be creative daily is my aim. I’m not sure whether or not I care about the approval or liking of my creative efforts because as long as I do them, I am part of them, harmless creativity despite disability, satisfies me. Self satisfied in that area has not diminished my desire to seek harmless satisfaction elsewhere, of and from myself and others. I very much enjoy company that is harmlessly creative and friendly, occasionally,mostly, in brief because pain prevents true communication and expression of me during true communication of others to me.
Those expecting cognitive behaviour from me had better be able to deliver cognitive behaviour to me. Especially those paid to do so. The consequence of them not doing so shall be removal,of any cognitive respect from my self to them and any they contract and send to dutifully by law, provide the needs they know or are willing to discover that I have them, I cannot, with physical pain, always communicate them accurately. Paid professions must prove themselves worthy of their title, they expect instead, mor often than not, me to respect their titles which is belied by their harm incurring behaviour. Surely to lessen harm patients are already suffering, hence the initial need for their employ . Though I am truly grateful to all those who cognitively help me with any or all my actual physical and mental health needs, I cannot nor do I desire to, find gratitude for those using their paid positions to, with personal taste and discrimination, withhold professional help and support from some of us, cause harm to myself and others, directly or indirectly, with deliberate or indifferent neglect.
I never have nor will I ever agree to, respect or condone those types of professionals who actually exist, are contracted to practice in my locality. Too many of them have taken and do take advantage of the ill, of any who are in fact, classed as being among, ‘the vulnerable’ of our society. So called authenticated professionals, with declared varying skills, have chosen not to accommodate our needs. Instead they have chosen to profit and take advantage of our vulnerabilities and to hide behind their paid positions of claimed professionalism as yet, not delivered, for recognition as should be, by duty of care laws enacted many years ago, in claimed and paid for authenticity.
What others choose to do about that is slow in the doing. Many choosing a defensive approach declaring disbelief, most because they do not like picturing how the harmful truth of the matter affected/affects, one they care for and even love.
Let me suggest it is time to, ‘sort self’s out’ or stop declaring that love or care, about or for a person, is in said ‘self’. Stop implying that self would help other harmed self out of helpless situations. Stop adding harm to the harmed because self doesn’t like that they are indeed harmed and are choosing to live in denial. That mind set is harmful and it is ‘wrong’. It aids continuation of harm being done by charlatans posing as professionals because they have certificates of qualifications and word their behaviour in such manner that their patients or clients seem ‘wrong’ when the opposite is true. De ‘harm’ self’s, all, before uttering another word, implying another implication of support in the fields of care or love. Until such time as self is actually equipped to help.
When in paid positions, authenticated by whatever authority, ensure your own ‘self is not only equipped to do that work but also willing to do so with good grace and applied decent work ethics. There is no space in these days of incompetence and advantage taking for for incompetence and advantage taking for ‘wrongful’ monetary gain for ‘self’. Doing things the ‘not wrong’ way leads to better practice, better understandings and be helped vulnerable persons, as is properly paid for already but, not yet properly delivered.
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Surely the loads of disturbing incidents and encounters, has and does motivate me to improve my own self and distance myself from that type of harmful company. Choosing not to take part in the burdening of ‘wrong’ on self or others experiencing life, including the planet. That is often a problematic challenge for me, breaking old mind set habits is a lifetime activity as new ‘wrong’ mind sets are presented, proposed, imposed even, on me. It’s not easy at all, is often exasperating, considering all else that I need to manage and is of but, not for, myself.
I prefer of professionals of the efficiently authentic kind, cognitive, considerate helpers, supporters and motivators, truth be told, especially from those paid much money, given many benefits, taking ‘wrong’ advantage of their own paid positions, where there are practical things to do or, to organise the doing of any of those.
Those volunteering their time freely, to help me, or others in need of concerned consideration, accounts of their whatever, horrific as they may sound, were and and are truthful. The questions I would initially ask of those wishing they could help is, “Are you truly able to accept my/other truthful accounts and help me/them?” and, “Having accepted my/our account as truthful, though hard to digest, are you now equipped to help?”.
Burdens, we can all contribute to lessening..should we choose wisely and truly..so that balance is continuously, sustainably restored for the continuation of the evolution of harmlessness for all life forms to experience and hopefully, to enjoy.
Educating, inspiring, harmlessly challenging, can be, I find is, exciting. Makes me shake with excitement at times, truth be told. Without relaxation from excitement life is not just harmful it is dangerously so. Would be ‘wrong’. I have chosen a path of doing less harm but I do enjoy a few excited feelings. I don’t crave or pursue excitement, never really have but excitement finds me, sometimes it floods in and overwhelms me. I recover, smiling inwardly as well as outwardly and then get on with stuff.
By the way, ‘not wrong’ just in case any one of us persons, is still in doubt about own selfs’ contribution to the ‘no harm’ cause by doing at least, one harmless thing at a time and embracing that new habit. It does indeed reduce and in some situations ceases not only our ‘wrong’ but, the ‘wrong’ of a harmful mindset of another. That, one, ‘not wrongs beginning and inspiring other such behaviours, is by itself, a strong act of quality and so, of value.
As we are in a position of situations, traumatically harmful, happening now, if not to our selfs’ to others, we need to consider our parts, individually and collaboratively. Our part in the reduction of all ‘wrong’ can be a contribution to that reduction as soon as we recognise the importance of our own responsibility to check our self before checking another, we are free to influence by individually recognisable, noticeable acts of changing our self to beings of a much less harmful nature.
Always room for improvement is a recognisable place to begin improvements.
Have I improved a situation caused by harm or by harmful disease? Is a recognisable question that assists mind set changes.
Our parts in better evolvement of self, of people, is possible when harmless is applied more commonly.
I have begun to do so more purposefully. I have a lot to sieve through, my own causing of harm and, harm caused to me by others.
I am on a daily basis doing so. I manage my own errors as soon as I recognise them. I am usually in the process of observing my own behaviour and that of others, among other brain activities.
My own instinctive, reactive desire to punch other persons lights out in instant reaction to their harmful wrongs done. Those harmful ‘wrongs’ that directly or indirectly affect me. I am amazed at my strength of will , my mind control, in the past before any helpful to the cause advice, and even now, the ability to refrain from holding onto or acting on such thoughts, ideas of killing certain offenders, violators of my body and my mind…amazed at my ability to grain from causing them to cease being alive because I do not appreciate the harm they cause at all. Not a glimmer of relating to their harmful mind sets do I find in my mind set. No, acting on those deadly or other harmful thoughts is rarely entertained and when it does stick I can usually water it down until least harm said or done. I do not appreciate any who feel they have lawful permission to disturb my own purposefully, harming less as I learn and discover new understandings, my own creative thinking, life. I do manage not to satisfy my reactive desires. That has caused cost and harm to others before I achieved ability to think on, I did cause harm that I have carried shame for, not deadly, but truly emotional for all concerned. I may or may not be forgiven by those adversely affected by my life, my company, thing is, I have forgiven myself and ceased thoughtless behaviour in favour of cognitive behaviour. It is an evolving skill.
It isn’t easy but breaking any wrong, harmful habits to and of self and/or others, never is.
It is challenging our harmless abilities. That my friends, takes a great deal of strength of purpose and will as much as of mind and, proves that we have a different type of courage to those types historically and currently being promoted who blatantly do and promote harm.
A different type of selfish and selfless courage and purpose emerges. Take a look at the life, the people and times surrounding, Mahatma Gandhi. He was a master of ‘harm less’ courage and strength.
Courage and strength is necessary to build upon knowledge shared by the experienced, in order to gradually or suddenly, stop our parts in the harmful contributions to our selfs, to others and to the planet, having arrived or yet to arrive, by birth or by any other means. To stop the harm is the interesting and somewhat overwhelming task of importance, above all other tasks that need our attention and will assist us in performing all our own tasks.
Whether or not our direct and our indirect relatives and friends do so. Strength and courage to control our words, thoughts, emotions and actions comes at a cost to our selfs and some times at cost to those directly and indirectly related and/or effected or influenced by us. I hope those other selfs have the strengths, means, courage and ability to understand that there are costs of changes for betterment and progress, during changes from harm very much to harm very much less.
Prior to my own costs, I had no idea costs would cause my self and the self of others, so much pain and so many tears.
Those who would harm, at least to at most, have plenty of examples and ideas of the costs accompanying harm. Look at history, include the traumatic, the barbaric, then look at recent and today’s news, watchful for traumatic, the barbaric,
Understand. At least begin to understand that the pathways to traumatic and barbaric are very broad, crowded and trodden a great deal. The costs of continuing along those paths are way too high, far too traumatic. Soon to be obliterated..according to this broad pathway of destruction, weaponry dealers and pushers are leading others onto. According too, to the broad pathway those of religious statements, not deeds, are also leading. Those baffle me because in Christian faith it was written that God can and has changed mind set when enough pray for change. So …? Whatever, I have chosen to cut through and develop my own narrow path with very broad often spectacular challenges and views.
The harm less aim, narrow, less trodden, is to prevent further harm to self and to persons born and/or being born into harmful, traumatically or other degrees of harm that, are not always possible to shrug off, wrong doings. By expecting those born, to accept those ways without argument or evolvement of other ways less harmful is a wrong in its self. I did that myself, that was a habit I was born into and questioned but then later imposed other harmful by imposing my own wrong habits and by being in communities imposing harmful habits.
I gave birth in the belief that because I wasn’t imposing the wrong habits of those harmful immediate situations I was born into, my child would not be as harmed. My child wasn’t harmed as I was, instead, my child was harmed differently by the habitual denials or lack of recognition about what is harmful to myself or my child and the habitual denials or, lack of recognition of what is actually harmful, of many others. The shame of that hangs around like a bad smell, it is not mine alone to deal with and repair or replace mind sets. My child has harmed the children born to my child in differing ways to the harm done in the communities I and my growing child were in. And so it continues among many families and communities .. do we want that?
No! Surely not!
During my time, starting with my birth in the middle of 1955, habitual, wrong situations in families, communities, societies and states, were widespread and wrongfully accepted without question. It was a complex time indeed. And yes, we are actually facing yet more complexities and wrongs these days.
The difference for me now is that I am an adult who appeared in the horror story of the mid 1900’s when no support was inspired, offered or purposed properly in order to break wrong doing habits. The wrong then, had got so accepted that one man and his recruited band of followers tried to force starting from scratch with his ideals. His name was Hitler. My parents and their parents, those opposing his brutal and deadly ideals fought a massive war to prevent his progress. This involved other continents with differing complex differences blown out of reason, joining the deadly and destructive affray. Ending with the use of deadly nuclear weaponry that killed harmless minded folk alongside the harmful minded folk.
It did nothing to set in most minds that, changes about belief that starting from scratch is possible without affecting those who want that.
Starting from scratch is impossible for any given the differing ways of the differing populations. Believing that starting from scratch doesn’t involve mass, thoughtless destruction, affects every living being adversely. No argument presenting the wrong is proper. Not having a wrong mindset is the better aim, doesn’t involve mass destruction either. Once achieved that influence can be shared widely and consequently, eventually evolves into nurturing properly, lovingly, definitively. Those who gain are numerous if not personally known to us.
In the evolving interests of ‘not wrong’ surely that encourages us all to be evolving for betterment of experiences gained by self and others.
Evolving
There are many avenues making this possible. They may not be famously known or broadly used but they are plentiful, interlinking narrow pathways of broad views of ‘not wrong’ actualities and possibilities, in a most friendly manner. It is true that the louder, more famed wrong doers, in their own narrow minded, on their ‘broad path’ ways, are opposing, annihilating even, any on those narrow paths that they see as a threat to their current, narrow views of, only the wrong ways done are possible habits to continue, denying that wrong is indeed wrong. Promoting it as the only way to get anywhere, of religious or secular worth. Those with mind sets of destructive and deadly content tend to agree, encourage and purposefully promote the broad, well trodden path ways of harmful ‘wrong’.
They believe they can continue their way without disruption, not noticing or wanting the habits of the narrow routes, broader mind sets creating, enjoying and even cutting narrow pathways to avoid such terrors as wrong habits incur.
Ways even to encourage them other wise.
To evolve in hopes of bettering life on the Earth is challenging and very rewarding in little ways that stack up. We simply need to accept the often difficult challenges of discovering those other harmless wisdoms and share directions to them harmlessly. Accept rather than internally argue for sake of harmful peace.
No, it is not easy but then those seeking challenge are usually equipped to handle such and can often readily be found in creativity.
Seeking to find our own creativity, it surely does exist without exception, in many variants, differing genres. Our very own methods of encouragement,inspiration too. We tend to oppose abuse by denying it’s effect. This will, most often, result in dissolution of the desire to adversely affect our own self purpose ad strength of will, individually and eventually communally.
During evolvement, the desire to harmlessly affect eventually has an effect that is preferable to those among us seeking friendly calm, enjoyable commitments, communications, educations and better, extensive understandings that eradicate harm and wrong doings.
All it takes is better time management, organisation and use, the exploration to discover treasures of ‘not wrong’ which are as the population is, plenty. Found first in ourselves .. as of .. now.
Our own focussed reflections in established situations, wrong or not wrong…one can use times that have become for most, automatic, harmless habit. The moments like waking, dressing, cleaning of teeth, making of breakfast, bed, washing of dishes and selves, walking, the waking, dressing, breakfast making etc. for others too, or while others are doing things for us, less physically able.
Organise the travelling of the mind during automatic tasks, to create *concern from *worry (about any unsettling or disturbing matter) then, on via our own mind, into better more harmless, purposefully productive moments of reflection with, any aid necessary. Challenging our selves to better behaviours of no harm involves conscious acknowledgment, recognition of observed or experienced knowledge of behaviours that cause harm. Our own and those of others.
Cognition-reflect upon that word, I have, several times since I first heard it years ago, and recently used in conversation with therapists attempting to help me with managing anxiety, depression and all that triggers those. I am aware now that probabilities of harmless cognitive behaviour are possible. They are certainly, if dormant currently, in others as much as self. Applied or not,hey’re there waiting to be applied no matter what society situation we find ourselves in or whatever social situation we purposely take ourselves in to.
* Concern-Controlled, prioritised recognition of an unsettling issue in manageable focus.
*Worry-Uncontrolled, un prioritised, recognition of an unsettling issue in magnified focus.
Collaborative, reflective questions-perhaps to be asked by each of us inclusively, now
What do we habitually do that causes any other living being, harm?
Are we behaving automatically in habitual learned state of automatic denial of the harms we cause. Are we living habitually or cognitively?
(Clothing currently causes mass pollution, which results in disease and death and all the feelings that accompany disease and death. The over production of too many clothes, too much meat and grain foods is currently causing unnecessary harm, destroying forests and distressing animals. The announcements of, ‘too much waste’ in both clothing and foods, surely informs us that there is too much production, too much buying of that which is produced. The use of pollutants in our habitual daily life is burdening the Earth in wrongful manner.
How can we change this individually, collaboratively and communally in unity to realistically meet needs by harmless production of both necessary clothing and necessary production of all food by farming? By the gentle method of breaking harmful habits, too often automatic, without thought, or mindful, purpose full time out from.
Does the established mass farming truly need to continue? Do we truly need to buy things wrapped in pollutants?)
Reflect, do not allow guilt to distract you from constructive, purposeful improvements harmless to self and others. We are not often acutely aware that we all exist at this time, with liked or not, thoughts.
Keep purposely asking of self only, do I truly need that thing, that like?
Do I consciously and purposefully contribute to this stage of Earths’ evolution harmlessly?
Am I fully knowledgable about all harms I cause directly or indirectly?
Are my words and my own actions fully expressing my harmless intent or do they continue contributing to the habitual excuses for harm?
Ask self-ask self-ask self.
Think creatively with humility, as many have already been doing. Encourage this train of thought, ‘to produce practicable, purposeful methodology that will probably, perhaps not definitively appeal to at least one other’. In hope that, eventually, most and then, all begin to change and enjoy the changes, or make light and fun of own mistakes. Unlikely to happen overnight but that doesn’t stop me purposefully willing it to happen to and for all eventually. Not only harmless thought but any act that is selflessness, harmless, after self has been duly broken of harmful habits in word and deed contributes to the beginning of all acts and deeds being harmless, spreads like a cure for the social disease of mindlessly causing harm to self and others.
Inspiring excitement of a pleasantly acceptable and harmless nature.
Challenging the very best of our own harmless practises in our very own minds.
How do we change our own harmful wrong doing?
How shall society evolve from most harm into least harm?
We begin by aiming purposefully our self into doing no wrongs. That is how.
It is not going to be universally done fast, unless we all change our individual habits at the same time, in the same instant. That would indeed be of miraculous origin.
Looking to the children to better things is a wrong look. We must our selves change in order to be example that change is possible even in adversity.
It is by no means easy but, it can be an exciting, if not always enjoyable, challenge of discovery of self content, weaknesses and strengths, self contribution.
Ask self, “kindly build on my harmless strengths and forgive my harmful weaknesses as I change from doing harm to being my most possible, highest form of harmless. Focus on recognising both at the same time, in the same reflective moments. This is truly necessary in order to confront our own wrong doings and change to not wrong.
When we do so in ‘proper’ manner we are flowing, if over bumpy ground, at times. We might experience bruising, we probably need to. After all we have all contributed to more than the bruising of our most wonderfully giving host this planet Earth and all she freely provides for us all. There are no Earth sourced lists with named persons saying who she favours. Heavenly sourced lists are in question too, due to the killing wrongs done and being done. No doubt she will have her vengeance and I personally have no doubt Heaven shall have vengeance too.
Thing is, as of this moment we have now to improve our self and the life of our earth.
Let us watch and note, witness who favours the considered for sake of
We have all, without exception caused some living being, plant, animal, insect, sea creature, person on this Earth somewhere, some harm, to deny that is to live in delusion and to express illusion.
The as yet, undefined to all in obvious enough manner to inspire cessation of harm extent and the consequences of harm varies. Whatever the opinion, the view, variant, harm causing, is definitely wrong in any mindfully considered thought.
Causing harm deliberately is of a mind that has been manipulated to do so, original source unknown. To assist changes of mind/s and will/s that are set to harm self and/or others, cognitive support shall be needed, hopefully provided in secure way, when necessary to prevent any further, ‘worst harm’.
Evolving
To evolve ourselves from wrong to not wrong is, in itself merely part of evolutionary process and occurrence. Perhaps merely a tiny dot in existence, but, when looked at as our own, our responsibility to behaviour that is not wrong, we educate ourselves. We do not emulate or support the wrongs of others, no matter their famed, wrongful achievements. Famed achievements have already caused much harm on many levels. Fame in its self is not necessarily harmful. It is of use to promote the harmless. The harmlessly entertaining. To show the wrong in harm causing. It has been abused, sometimes unwittingly used to,promote selves of a harmful if of lesser harms, nature. True to say, any harm caused, is wrong. Sometimes when promoting, exposing harm it has been oppressed that the harm caused was wrong. Left to assumption that the harm was obvious and that how to stop that harm is not possible for those choosing not to cause it. There needs to be more cognitive behaviour among those promoting and seeking fame. As well as those exposing harm in their ‘famous’ advantages..
Life can be an exciting journey. It often includes our own part in our own frightening, often painful but survivable, horror story. It is non the less our own living story. Our own harmlessly playful story? When we change our mindset from wrong to not wrong. When we begin evolving, we don’t often notice how many little changes we are making due to bettering the frequency of our own ‘not wrong’s. We often deny ourselves that glory. It is glory, personal glory, often voluntarily ignored by ourselves in favour of the suggested glory to be found in fiction, in films, that of ‘two wrongs’ not making any rights in the famed societies imposed upon ours. That comes into our living rooms and suggests we are worthless while they pursue fame to give themselves justification of some sort or another, alien to me as a matter of fact. I choose to watch such on my living room box or computerised items in search of amusement or entertainment…rarely found. I do not find the so labelled ‘reality shows’ in any way entertaining. In my opinion they are merely auditions for other shows that, are simpleminded tools of the wrong doing delusional illusion pushers. Nothing inspirational, encouraging not wrong that I’ve seen. Nothing of note at all…yet.
To evolve the widely seen entertainment industries, to begin changing those shall be a challenge not of simple minded origin. Fringe entertainment industries are sadly not accessible for all. So they have created exclusivity. Hindering their contribution to change. Exclusive is wrong because it is not inclusive. The challenge is to find entertaining qualities in entertainers who are encouraging and/or inspiring not wrong and sharing that in easy to access places. Now there’s a challenge. Too difficult? No, only to those promoting wrong, those not yet acknowledging their ability to evolve and influence others to evolve harmlessly.
One wrong habit that I challenge is, approaching another with friendly words or signals when intent is harmful, in my mind, that is devious behaviour, deviousness is wrong. However, I have often countered the devious with cunning. Cunning I discovered and achieved upon reflection after experiencing the harmful deviousness of many others. Do not enter into deviousness believing self is teaching another harmless cunning. Self do not. Self teach them they shall need cunning.
You do not teach them anything but your deviously harmful intent or deed.
To smile at another with violation as intent, is as harmfully wrong as violation.
Best check selves for any devious, harmful or violation in own mind content, whether by own desire or the experience forced on self by another, the desire to harm, before even looking at another with intent to communicate or befriend.
Clear out harmful clutter of self first, note where you have spread/shared that harm, in any variant, before expecting the harmful clutter of other minds be cleared.
Know true abilities of ‘not wrong’ self, clutter of mind can be harmful not only to self but to one or, more than one, other. Are they close, by initial love, by adoption, befriending or blood-related or other ways connected, to life of self?
Shall they notice the evolvement of self? They might not like the example of harmful habit breaking but they shall observe it. How they react depends on their own evolvement from harm into harmless.
Do we all now begin to better understand such is truly possible and eventually probable, for the sake of continuous and flowing-well evolution, instead of actual un-conscious and/or deliberate destruction, in any name for any cause? Be aware of where thoughts are being manipulated. There are persons living among us whose minds are certainly and often definitively set, very firmly in ‘wrong’ mode.
They need encouraging into ‘not wrong’ mind sets. Encouraging with inspirational careful cognition that is more effective for better changes than, forcing that change via any degree of reactive anger. Many angry reactions though they are often justified, they are still of ‘wrong’ mind set.
Reflections…
Cognitive….
Compassionate…
Consideration leading to better widespread examples of knowledgable understandings not, argument or instant reaction, is necessary from this moment onwards to each selfs’ proper place in the harmless evolution of all persons as a sustainable life form among other life forms for and on this spectacularly complex and yet oh so beautifully simple planet, Earth.
Love is a genuine key.
How to love properly is not as obvious to all as is necessary for bettering our harmless activity’s.
I set a question for bettering personal and widespread cognition;
“How is love expected to be harmlessly learned about and then applied in proper
and harmless manner?”
I ask this so that we may begin learning how to love properly rather than only feel love and impose improper love of on any. Thereby protecting many and most importantly protecting those recently born and others that follow, from causing or being caused actual bodily or emotional harm. So they may march happily and less harmfully forwards in their own part in the evolution of their own and, that of their fellows, life’s.
Reflect, discuss, educate, encourage, inspire to make whatever ‘will’ necessary for better effective affecting expressions of harmless selfs’ we have time while we live and breathe…yes we do.
So let each of us, by our own self, motivate our own self and, others among us;
Reflect, discuss, educate, encourage, inspire, understand, gain and retain, strength and be courage building. While driven by harming less, learning to make of self whatever ‘will’ necessary for better effective, affecting expressions of harmless selfs’ necessary for ‘harmless’ sakes.
We have plenty of ‘self mind’ discovery time while we live and breathe…yes we do.
Change is happening now.
From harm to harm less to not much harm at all then evolving into no harm at all, not rushing, in order not to miss one scrap of harm our self causes or feels. Creatively evading harms. Creatively inspiring no harms, not wrongs.
Evolution dictates we change or we be destroyed.
As humans, most of us, sadly not all, living today, whatever our origin, in our hearts, may be not yet, in our conscious minds, have the will whether or not yet built the strength, to make necessary harmless behaviour in order to purposefully, create better harmless evolution.
The argument that it is not possible doesn’t withstand justification as, only the harmful has been given time to, unhappily, quietly devious or loudly barbaric, evolve.
It is time for the harmless whether quietly cunning or noisily experienced, in sight and soundly grounded, of the harmless. For happier widespread times in historical records of the future of persons being thought of and those being born now.
Changing our mind sets to strengthen and accommodate our will to initially, purposefully create or cause as much harmless as we, our own self’s, are able by, quiet cunning or noisy experience. Then onward to discover, by uncovering, much more that is harmless and sharing that in loud celebrations.
Time for history to begin the first page of the second chapter of purposeful harmless actions and activities. Beyond the reading of how to be harmless, past that post and into the wonder of doing harmless. Somewhat challenging as many have not even read and digested fully, the ‘how to’ chapters yet. Many are still in the misplaced, misleading mindsets of naively, some ignorantly, causing harm.
Hey ho, various challenges are what we face most days.
One of my personal, traumatised aims is to be able to overcome anxiety and depression triggers at all times as much as to do much less harm in cognitive manner. I am hoping that those paid to assist and support understand and do their chosen works.
You?
Carry on *number one. Make it so.
Any words that are new or not understood by self can be easy found in alphabetical order in The Oxford English Dictionary.
*In my opinion, as a practising, evolving, cognitive person of altruist beliefs, we are all number one’s, without exception. Each has at least one harmless to self and one harmless to others, thought or action, most, including myself, have many of both those, perhaps undiscovered yet, evolving as harmless, creative thoughts in several different areas and small and in large fields, containing river and lake, all of great importance, if not great in size, to harmless evolution.
I now heartily suggest you hear my all time favourite song, a song that expresses my own feelings of and for various true loves in beautifully harmonious presentation. Yes.
Ruth’s Place 