What is expected of family?
How can family members contribute to community where their family heads of household exclude local community, deny local community, misuse local community?
What hope for distant communities when close communities are ill considered and treated harmfully?
How does each family member adapt to their own family and any local community, any society that they are born into and/or living among? How to do so with contributory, considerate and helpful actions, ideas and support as their intent? How to question respectfully and be considered seriously, the continuation of any wrongs to themselves or others?
Surely when born in the position of such huge populations that is apparent, (2020), the contribution expected of family members, both in family and in community needs to be, at the very least, discussed with each, existing and when developed the new, family member, in each family and every community and society, with respect to all harmless and mindfully considerate contribution.
Too many are born with their lives not free for them to live as they harmlessly choose. That, when they develop themselves with little or no recognition and, have no guidance of proper grounding but are left to find it for themselves. Some are not even aware it exists so how can they find it? Often such guidance is so hard to find, many get swallowed up, in the widespread social disease of, ‘causing harm and harmfully impose pretence that it’s not caused nor is it happening’.
Often established guidance or expectations have no living source but, enforces unquestioning acceptance, only the harmful, misleading values and ideals of the heads of households, heads of communities and of societies and State, also established without hearing reasonable question, often established with questionable and harmful values.
Inherited denial of celebrating and proper recognition of harmless to evolve more comfortably into the harmless best behaviours, denies admiral aim.
Best harmless behaviours are far more challenging, require much more strength than the harmfulness of established ways and situations.
Denying harmless values is not only a mistake, it is very wrong and encourages harm. It is also extremely questionable.
Being born human, with reasoning capacity, we naturally and oh so obviously have questions. We have and are often denied the opportunities to establish our own harmless values. We are very often harmed in the process of accepting harmful values and denied our harmless values as being true in nature. Sometimes being a person with the capability of reason means denying our natural instincts. However denying harmless in favour of harmful is not reasonable by any stretch of the minds journeying among its own thoughts and desires.
Questions of a reasonable nature, left unanswered, silenced and or punished in many different, harmful ways for having, results in; confusion, Stockholm syndrome and unrest. Lack of harmless guidance is in actual fact, as I breathe, live and observe myself and others, proven to cause death. Death of harmlessness, resulting in actual deaths of actual persons. Awful results.
When creating, growing a family member, surely identification of their harmless discoveries, questions, developments found in their personality as much as their physical abilities, needs to be accommodated. Ensuring that parents and other family members are not only equipped to give that support but are willing and able to provide emotional support for each family and or community member. If not established currently, now is the right time to begin establishing it. Best not deny such harmless encouragement due to harmful minded, grand-parental, parental, sibling and other family members and indeed, community and so larger society who need or want to expand, by birthing more members before discovering personality’s and abilities of all the already existing established members.
The lessons of harmless, considered, proper contribution to community, family and individual behaviours, the words and intent of those, need to be learnt and applied fully, without the apparent rush to get otherwise.
The fact that all human beings are born with differing brain and mind management abilities, ranging from very little to a great deal is often overlooked in a rush, driven by desire or chemical need, to expand numbers of family, community and/or society members. People of any age, with less abilities in those areas, are currently often denied the support they need, in family, community and society, yet they tend to have creative and other abilities of admirable content that would contribute to both family and community.
This surely needs addressing with less harm being done to them.
Those with limited physical abilities who have been ejected from families, though born of them, put into community establishments or areas and there, often abused, often denied personality expression, even though their personalities are not of a harmful nature. Many times thoughtlessly thrown into and forced to live among harmful often wrongfully brutal other persons.
These society, community and family issues need addressing. Many distressed characters are being denied support in favour of harmful overbearing personalities, often to point of discourteous, disrespectful bullying and imposed, without due emotional control guidance. Limiting proper development and resulting in growth of persons, families, communities and societies in unfavourable manner.
Surely this needs due time for discussion, not petty squabbles or argument. Only those with free and emotional control can assist the reduction of loud, insulting arguments by applying their ability to control their emotions, denying insults, mockery and those petty types of comments too often presented in reaction to wise and reasoned knowledge and/or observations.
The creatives can share their ideas and or creations with the emotionally controlled to suggest and request proper presentation of proposals worded accordingly. Time used in this manner is the proper way to help and encourage establishments of harmless families, communities and so, societies.
There needs to be less desire to mock-insult-ridicule, to deny or to bully those without the ability to physically defend their selves. Especially to encourage inspirational creativity while discouraging wrongs, harmful, copied or inherited behaviours which establishments today seem happy to ignore or develop.
Any types of mocking-insulting, often loud denial of the sense of others and, bullying behaviour is unacceptable to any with fair, harmless, properly considered and reasoned points of view.
This all surely needs to be considered honestly as much as accepted as important in all discussions when desiring or needing to expand families, communities and societies of any worth to the Earth that is desperately struggling under the weight of supporting all life.
Unproductive to talk of or indeed expect as a right, the generalised statements of ‘quality of life’ when values vary so enormously and many are questioning in imposed silence. Imposed silencing of reasonable questions results in much unrest, anger and denial of freedom to be and/or encourage all things harmless.
Perhaps, your choice of course, encourage instead, discussions from answers to the question, ‘what specifics do you believe all persons born any where, in any condition, should already be established and known as given considerately by family and/or community and/or society for life, as well as at the beginning of each and every human life?’
Also maybe question, ‘what advantages are truly harmless and realistically fair in any family, community, society and/or State?’
Reflection.
Ruth’s Place 